Find Love and Be Happy!
But to love someone else we need to remember to love ourselves too. If you don’t love you, then who else will?
Love helps you feel more confident! Love makes you want to jump over buildings. Love makes you want to swim the seven seas. Love makes you feel warm and fuzzy. Love makes you all goofy and giddy. Love makes you tingle!
Love actually improves every physiological function of our bodies. Our circulation improves, our outlook improves, we exercise more, and eat less! Our overall well being improves! Love stands the test of time. We actually want to take care of ourselves and look beautiful when we are truly in love. (With ourselves or with someone else.) You may never find love if you don’t take care of yourself! Looks do count for something! You don't have to be a Prima donna either! Just be the best you can be at any size, shape, or form and people will just notice! After all, we’re all different. It’s a beautiful thing really... What a boring world if we all looked the same! If you want to find love though, then there is work to do! Improve what you can and you will find love if you're looking! If you've suffered from the loss of a loved one, a little perspective can go a long way. It’s like the old saying goes: It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all! And it’s so true. Never forget your loved ones, but to truly live, you have to move on! And always remember, that you can’t live with someone else until you learn how to live with yourself. The same is true for love. How can you expect to love someone else until you truly love yourself! If you can’t live with you or love you, then why would anyone else want to? Learn to be better whether you’re single or not. Don’t leave it up to a partner to be the cause of positive changes you can make for yourself. The only person that can change things is you! How you handle your life is a direct reflection of you. Your self-esteem and self-confidence all play a role in how you're able to love yourself and other’s. So, how do we find love? First you must seek self love. Stop self persecution. Forgive yourself of your shortcomings. Make a list of things you like about you and concentrate on building on those things! Seek help from others. Help yourself when you can. Help others when you can. And never ever, stop learning all you can to improve yourself! Second we must seek love. It used to be that our friends or family members or neighbors would introduce us to their friends and somehow we just met that special someone. These days, it’s a whole different story though. Being in love or loving someone is certainly a challenge, but is is achievable. In the age of the internet, thousands of dating sites have exploded. It seems that many of us are all seeking the same thing. Love. Never ever stop looking for it and you will find it! That warm fuzzy feeling that makes you want to 'get er done' and find someone special! I’ve been on a few dating sites and gotten great responses. My problem is that I love to work and don’t have time to play as much as I’d like. I’m just not a relationship hopper but I know a lot of people who are. They just can't seem to stand to be alone for one minute. I also made up my mind years ago that I wasn’t gonna ‘settle’. Some folks might though and that’s fine for them. Whatever floats your boat! Different strokes for different folks, right? You can’t meet anyone though, if you aren't willing to try. I really don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life, as much as I like being with me:o) If you do find love your overall beauty and health will improve! Love is a great incentive for self improvement! If you don’t find love with someone else, then remember to love yourself! You might be lonely while you wait for the right partner but if you love yourself you can still survive and thrive, until the right person comes along!
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